Thursday, December 12, 2013

Top 10 Ways to Have a Great Break!

We are all excited about Christmas break, and many of us have started setting some goals. We want to get all of our reading done for the Spring Semester. We want to witness to all of our friends, etc. Unfortunately, many of us get home and do nothing.  Laziness ensues. Sometimes students even fall into old sinful habits. Here are some tips and ideas to help you have a successful break:

1.  Sleep! But not too much. You just completed a semester of school on an average of 4-5 hours of sleep per night. By all means, catch up on your sleep! This does not mean, however, that you should become nocturnal and stay up until 3am each night and sleep in past noon each day. Get yourself 8-10 hours of sleep each night. No more, no less. Nothing valuable happens after midnight. Go to bed by 11 and get up around 8. It’s a great schedule. If you need more sleep, go to bed earlier. J

2.  Build a tree-house. You don’t have to build a tree-house, but I do recommend some kind of productive hobby.  Video games are not a productive hobby. Find something active, constructive, instructive, productive, or another “-ive”. Build something with wood. Sew some clothing. Cook food for someone.  Learn to play an instrument. Hike. You want something fun and productive that isn’t homework and isn’t a video game.

3.  Beware of Know-It-All syndrome. You just finished a semester of Bible College. Way to go!  Remember, this does not make you an expert on all-things-Bible. As you return to your homes and churches, be teachable. You may know more “facts” about the Bible than your parents or other church members. But, believe me, they know much more about life.  Much more. Return with a teachable spirit. Listen to your parents. Consider their instruction. If you are having trouble with this, read some Proverbs. 

4.  Talk and share with your family. If you are anything like me, than your general response to your family’s questions about life is, “good.” It’s the easy response when you are tired, and not sure you want to share everything. Instead, open up. Talk with them. Show them pictures and tell them stories of classes and friends and mistakes and joys. Share as much as you can. They care about you and you need to keep them involved in your life. Open up. 
 
5.  Get involved at your church. 4 weeks can be an awkward amount of time. Too long to be just a visit, but too short to make commitments. As you return to your home churches, jump right in. Within the first week you are back, talk to your pastor about how you can get involved. Sing in the Cantata, teach Sunday School, share a testimony, lead music, play the piano, do a Bible study, write notes, etc. Don’t just be there, be all there.

6.  Set achievable goals. It’s great that you want to get all of your homework done for next semester, but that’s not really an achievable goal. Set goals in small amounts so you can chop away at them. Rather than setting a goal to chop down a redwood tree, set a goal to swing the axe at it 4 times each day, and then see how far you get. If your goal is too big, you might be too intimidated to ever get started. If you set achievable goals, you might actually achieve some of them!

7.  Plan to spend time in the Word. When you head home, you get out of your “routine.” You’ll want to sleep in and then do your devotions when you get up. The problem is, when you get up at 11, there’s stuff going on and it’s hard to focus. So, you put it off. Before you know it, the day is spend and you haven’t been in the Word. “I’ll get to it tomorrow,” you’ll tell yourself. But you won’t. Plan now to spend time in the Word then. Figure out a good time and stick to it. Tell someone else who can hold you accountable. You need to be in the Word. Make it happen.

8.  Reflect on the previous semester.  It all happened so fast! Take some time over break to think back over the semester you just finished. Rehearse some of the good memories. Think about regrets you have. Think about the things you really liked? What would you like to do differently next semester? What things would you like to do more next semester?

9.  Develop your knee callouses. The semester gets so busy that it’s hard to spend time in prayer. If you don’t get in the habit of praying when you do have time, you certainly won’t pray when you’re busy. Work on a prayer list. Start a prayer journal. Ask your pastor if you can meet with him for prayer once a week. Pray, pray, pray.

10.  Focus.  In all of these things you do, focus. Focus on the right thing. Your purpose is to bring God glory. This is true even during breaks J. Start each day focused on God’s glory. Ask yourself, “How can I best honor Him today?” “How can I glorify Him as I __________?” In all you do, magnify your God, and it will be a truly great break.